Common Mistakes That Young Women Make While Dating – by Khushi Chodankar

“The ultimate embodiment of power capable to spawn, nurture and evolve.A woman is truly the epitome of love, sacrifice and care.”

Historically speaking the Sanatanis have always considers women as Shakti that is both creative and destructive power and acknowledges feminine as the manifestations of the goddesses who can as the gentle and benevolent Uma, terrifying force who destroys evil as Kali, or the warrior who conquers forces that threaten the stability of the universe as Durga.

The International Women’s Day is celebrated on 8th March all over the world to appreciate all the women who are the essence of our lives playing different roles with ease be it that of a wife, daughter, mother, sister or  friend – to celebrate woman who is the epitome of love, sacrifice and care.

This Women’s Day let’s talk about some common mistakes that women make when falling in love…

1. Throwing yourself down the cliff of love

Many women dont shy away from throwing their hearts out at the right guy the moment they spot one but keeping the love aside you should really hold back a little and make room for yall to get to know each other well before throwing yourself down the cliff of love cause if he ain’t there to catch you then it’s going to hurt really good.

2. Is Sharing really caring ?

If the man you are seeing is involved with another woman (married/dating) is the moment your connection should end. Do you want to have his heart when it already belongs to someone? Do you really want it if he was so easily willing to share it?

3. Inviting him over

Inviting Him over after a few dates means he knows where to reside before you know whether

you want to see him again which is a very bad idea. Your home is your castle and the guy your dating shouldn’t be invited inside until you make sure he’s the prince and not yet another clown.

4. Physical needs before emotional needs

Both men and women are guilty of often introducing sex into dating before they’ve had a chance to open up emotionally. Passion before progress is not a good plan and If he’s the Mr.Perfect, he’ll understand that waiting on sex will be worth it, and instead he’ll seduce your mind.

5. Bills Bills Bills !!!

An independent woman willing to split the bill for a date, or two from time-to-time is great and we should be proud of that. But you covering his way beyond dinner becomes a slippery slope to slide down. And the man who allows you to cover his way without meeting you halfway or returning the favor isn’t much of a man himself.

6. Compromises ?

Shush the little voice in your head that says,
” I can change him ” cause no sis you can’t…
If a person shows you who they are, believe them. It’s great advice that will never get old
You deserve what you want, end of the discussion. And If he can’t meets your needs, desires or wants, you shouldn’t be Compromising anything to keep him around.

7. Ignoring the REDS

Many women ignore the initial red flags in their relationships claiming its the Maroon flag but this silly mistake is what snowballs in the end and hits you in the face when yall split up…So next time you spot a red flag don’t assume it’s for the carnival.

8. Marry me !

Mr. Perfect won’t be needing you to throw hints for him to catch cause he’ll already know what he needs to do, and he will ask you when the

time is right. So if you feel like you’re pushing marriage, you’re probably forcing more than just matrimony…think bout it .

Well that’s it for now, Hope this list will help all the women out there as a guide to land next to their Prince Charming
– ” Khushi Chodankar.

About the Authoress :
Ms. Khushi Chodankar is in her 3rd year in Goa College of Arts. Panjim. She hails from Mapusa.